tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post6106875726905849616..comments2023-12-26T17:10:25.915-06:00Comments on Muddling through Mayhem: Sleep Chronotherapy - Changing sleep schedule in 1 week.marythemomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205319256573120866noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-84642272120391818292013-07-28T15:22:31.941-05:002013-07-28T15:22:31.941-05:00I think I signed out before I submitted the though...I think I signed out before I submitted the thoughtfully composed message...<br /><br />Here's the edited repeat version...<br /><br />I'm so sorry for your family's loss. Sudden tragedy is never easy to deal with... and our kids and their situations only make the very complicated so very much more complicated. <br /><br />We ended up doing a small VERY private memorial service at our church when our kids' almost-also-adopted-by-us-half-bio-sister was found murdered.<br /><br />Newspapers listed our adoptees by their birth-names as part of the surviving family. I understand why, but I didn't like them listed... I wouldn't have liked them not listed. <br /><br />I know making final arrangements for an expected death can have a lot of "I don't know, what do you suggest?" and there's not a lot of etiquette published as to the proper way to handle such difficult situations as we've adopted our kids out of. Compound matters by the unexpected tragedy and I'm sure decisions were hasty and unplanned. <br /><br />I'm praying The Lord will guide you about the best way to help your son deal with this compound loss.Hedged in Beautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11814058774756857724noreply@blogger.com