tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post7374896675416497054..comments2023-12-26T17:10:25.915-06:00Comments on Muddling through Mayhem: Transition Good News! Bear Updatemarythemomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205319256573120866noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-91018432335835350472012-11-25T16:40:24.571-06:002012-11-25T16:40:24.571-06:00Anonymous - I don't call them Kleenex girls to...Anonymous - I don't call them Kleenex girls to say anything about the girls themselves, although I do believe they probably have serious issues themselves to tolerate Bear's issues. I call them Kleenex girls because Bear goes through them like Kleenex. Believe me I feel sorry for the girls and occasionally I try to warn them off where I can (but it's not really my place).<br /><br />Honestly I don't know what will happen to Bear. If there is a good place for him I haven't found it, or found a way to access it for him. He NEEDS structured support. Honestly jail is not a bad place for him in many ways. Unfortunately he falls in a gray zone and there are no perfect solutions for him.marythemomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08205319256573120866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-72532157558697220582012-11-24T12:51:09.400-06:002012-11-24T12:51:09.400-06:00Do you ever wonder about the IQ and development of...Do you ever wonder about the IQ and development of girls that would choose Bear as a boyfriend? Do you think it's fair to call them Kleenex girls? Would you want someone calling Kitty that? I don't mean to call you out, it's your blog and all, but it's a little mean. By the way you describe Bear and the violent crime he's been charged with, I feel a little sorry for those girls he's been with. <br />I hope Bear is able to get the support he needs- what do you think he needs at this point? Do you think he will be released soon? It's a shame that it doesn't seem like there are appropriate programs out there for boys like him. Where do you think he'll go?<br />Finally, I'm so glad to hear that Kitty's new principal gets it! Hopefully he'll start leading the counselors and teachers in the right direction, too. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-66456793094251190902012-11-23T11:02:50.718-06:002012-11-23T11:02:50.718-06:00Sorry, you're right, I meant the plaintiff. I...Sorry, you're right, I meant the plaintiff. I've edited it. I think they are hoping the plaintiff will want to forget about it so won't show up to court. I know the plaintiff received pressure from family to prosecute in the first place.marythemomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08205319256573120866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-54265173463493923032012-11-23T06:58:31.474-06:002012-11-23T06:58:31.474-06:00Bear is the defendant. I think you mean Bear's...Bear is the defendant. I think you mean Bear's lawyer is hoping that the plaintiff won't show up if he gets a continuance.<br />I've seen that happen in shoplifting cases when the merchandise was of little value but from what you've written, Bear's crime was of a serious nature so not bothering to show up seems odd, unless the plaintiff has something that he/she doesn't want exposed in court. Interesting. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com