tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post5549356636829982487..comments2023-12-26T17:10:25.915-06:00Comments on Muddling through Mayhem: No Ma'am! Yes Sir.marythemomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205319256573120866noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-74115357238327573012021-01-12T14:22:47.373-06:002021-01-12T14:22:47.373-06:00Interesting topic. My wife and I were just discuss...Interesting topic. My wife and I were just discussing how so many kids don’t have proper manners anymore. We decided we are going to insist on yes ma’am and yes sir from our kids. Not sure how to enforce it but we are making this a rule. <br /><br />Cody BraithwaitAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-89561176414338491452020-05-12T10:20:37.556-05:002020-05-12T10:20:37.556-05:00Just started making my boys answer us with yes sir...Just started making my boys answer us with yes sir, no sir and yes ma’am., no ma’am. Should have been more strict about it when they were younger but it’s never too late to start. I was raised this way and at 36, I still answer my parents and in-laws with yes sir and no ma’am. They deserve that type of respect. My boys were frequently answering uhha and yeah. No reason for them not to use respectful good manners when speaking to adults. Sure, the boys are not too happy about the new family rules, but I’m not changing my mind. <br /><br />Colton WilliamsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-52439544668948281502019-07-01T00:20:00.827-05:002019-07-01T00:20:00.827-05:00Good to see that their are still some parents out ...Good to see that their are still some parents out there that teach, require, and demand good manners from their children. I’m definitely tough on my 4 when it comes to discipline and manners. Please, thank you, yes sir, no sir, yes ma’am, and no ma'am are all required. <br /><br />Tyler GarciaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-13305966668971158012014-04-14T20:10:07.116-05:002014-04-14T20:10:07.116-05:00My husband is an airforce pilot so he does expect ...My husband is an airforce pilot so he does expect the yes sir, no sir, yes ma'am, no ma'am responses from the kids. We are pretty consistent with the requirement so it is somewhat automatic but on occasion one of the kids will forget or skip it and it always leads to a certain evil look my handsome husband will give along with "what did you say young man" or "yes what". I think most military families have this requirement or at least the ones we know. Most kids that grow up in a military household know their manners and are held to a high standard of discipline.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-23030042388203703702014-01-13T08:54:51.858-06:002014-01-13T08:54:51.858-06:00This is so interesting because my husband recently...This is so interesting because my husband recently decided to require that our children (2 teenage boys and a 12 year old boy)must attach either a "sir" or a "ma'am" to every response to all adults. This came about when my husband's boss invited our family over for dinner a few weeks ago and his boss's children answered every question, command, or comment with yes sir, no sir, yes ma'am, or no ma'am. When we left there my husband was so embarrassed by the way our kids answer. Mostly "yes" or "no" but sometimes "yeah" or "uhuh". On the way home in the car my husband informed the boys that effective immediately, they are to use yes sir and yes ma'am when answering an adult. He is no longer going to tolerate any other type responses and their will be severe punishment if this household rule is broken. My husband has instituted a zero tolerance policy regarding the boys' manners and the respect they must show. I think the boys are in shock a little as we only occasionally enforced the use of "sir" and "ma'am" in the past. They only had to use those forms of address when they were in trouble or were getting scolded. This new rule is a big change and I will say it is one that is being met unhappily by the boys. I am supporting my husband's decision and I wonder if this will last or if it is just a phase he is going through. I do have to admit that I am really enjoying the good manners that I am seeing and hearing now. It is quite a pleasant change even if we have to remind the boys several times each day. It would have been easier if this requirement was put in place when the boys were much younger. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-47201695535427160812013-09-19T10:34:15.860-05:002013-09-19T10:34:15.860-05:00My husband is big on the yes sir no sir and yes ma...My husband is big on the yes sir no sir and yes ma'am no ma'am responses from our children. This is an absolute requirement in our home. I really don't care either way, but since my husband is so firm on the kids using sir and ma'am I do go along with it. The older boys are teens now and they have complained about the yes sir/ yes ma'am requirement, but it has not done anything other than make my husband even more committed to this practice. If the boys have to get reminded more than once in a day about using yes sir and yes ma'am, they get punished with a grounding or they get their mouth slapped. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3852422397272068136.post-42159797023215058852009-11-26T10:06:50.159-06:002009-11-26T10:06:50.159-06:00In this case, I don't think Bear is trying to ...In this case, I don't think Bear is trying to distance himself from you. He's proud of being in ROTC and he probably likes using the skills he learns there, even simple ones like saying sir and ma'am. They are, after all, terms of respect. I'd let him go ahead and cal me me'am.<br />My eldest son decided to call his dad and me by our first names when he was about 16. I didn't like it but we let him go ahead. He's 21 now and still doing it, although he sometimes refers to us as mom and dad. He's a good kid and I know he loves us; it was just something he felt like doing. I had cousins who called their parents by their first names and I always thought it was cool, so I know where he's coming from.<br />The point is, we could have tried to force him to call us mom and dad and imposed consequences and battled over it or we could let it go. We chose to let it go. Obviously, if he called us something obscene or unflattering it would be different.Miz Kizzlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05650747741395559803noreply@blogger.com