|Secure Attachment - Basic needs met consistently|
|Basic needs not met consistently - weak foundation|
They are doing this to survive, and to stay "safe!"
"When your child goes out without a coat on. You can explain to the child a hundred times... there's no point. There's no point in sitting them down and talking to them about their behavior. Those pathways don't exist yet.
You've got to make the change first. You've got to be a therapeutic parent." - Sarah Naish